1 .My Parents.
They always believe in me, they're always there for me and have given me a loving upbringing. I look up to them so much and hope that I am even half the parents they have been to me and I'll consider that a success.
2. My husband.
I thank him for being there and for loving me despite all my flaws, he is a wonderful man and my best friend.
3 .My son.
My handsome and caring baby boy. He's 21 months old and a right handful at times, but I do adore him. Last week I came indoors after hitting a pigeon whilst driving, it's the first time I have hit anything behind the wheel and I burst into floods of tears and felt dreadful. My little boy took one look at me, came over and wrapped his arms around me. He is a wonderful boy and I am very proud to be his mummy.
4. My beautiful daughter.
We were blessed with having a little baby girl this year and I absolutely and completely love her. She is the most joyful baby I think I've ever seen. She is everything I aspire to be, beautiful, clever, loving and happy.
5. Swimming:
Swimming is my outlet, it is my favourite way to keep fit and such a great sport. I found it a god send when recovering from my broken knee cap as it took all the weight off the joint and helped my muscle tone as well as my general fitness. It's also an invaluable survival skill and an activity I can enjoy with my children.
6. Holidays.
Yes I love a family holiday. Sometimes it's nice to break away from the routine, the chores and to travel and see a new little corner of the world. This doesn't always have to be abroad. We adore Devon and Cornwall for a family adventure, there's lots to do there and the drive is manageable with 2 under 2. We love family activities, learning, exploring and helping to create happy memories for the children together.
7. Siblings.
I love that I have siblings, sometimes we argue, we disagree and have huge difference of opinion but they are still there at the end of the day, through the good times and the bad. They do not walk away and if they have done they've come back to make amends, I couldn't ask for any more than that.
8. Crafts.
I love making things. I get a sense of achievement from making things for the home, for family and for friends. I love personalised items and gifts with time, thought and meaning put into them and something a bit unique.
9. Animals.
I am a huge animal lover and enjoy visiting conservation zoos and local community farms the most. I love seeing different species up close and my particular favourites are the anteater, beavers and the platypus. We have 3 adorable guinea pigs who are also a huge part of our family.
10. Breastfeeding.
Yes I've said it, I am loving breastfeeding Lottie, now that's not to say it doesn't come without its struggles. The first few weeks were hard, very hard. We had tears, we had breakdowns, bleeding, and copious amounts of lansinoh. But after overcoming Lottie's tongue tie we've eventually got there and I feel so proud that all her growth and development is sourced from me as her mummy. It's an unbelievable bond that I treasure.
My home
This is a bit of a love hate relationship at the moment as we clear through the clutter accumulated over the last 2 years- my biggest bugbear. But I do love having a place we call home. I feel grateful to have a roof over our heads and a garden for the children to play in and a space to make our own. I need to keep this into perspective some days as we battle the storage boxes.
Hate
1. Clutter
This a huge one for me at the moment, we are still battling our way through 2 years of stored items from our house move and it makes me feel claustrophobic some days. I strongly dislike hoarding and keeping hold of things which aren't being put to good use.
2. Facebook
This may come of a huge surprise to my readers or those who know me well but I'm well and truly done with Facebook. It's a huge time waster for me and I dislike the politics. It's so easy for people to form judgement of you online or misinterpret things and I simply have no time for it any longer. It's been a long time coming and I really only use it for baby stuff and buy & sell groups so bit the bullet and removed my profile. I have much more spare time with my children now, am not constantly glued to my phone and am enjoying storing my photographs in online Flickr albums for family & friends rather than on social media sites. I find myself agreeing with the thought catalogue on this one.
3. Sinusitis
I suffer with it really badly and more so since having my two children. It brings me to a complete halt at least 7-8 times a year now and sets me back a good couple of weeks in pain. I've already had my sinuses operated on as a child and fear I will never be alleviated of sinusitis unless I go under the knife for a second time, my nasal passages are obviously wired the wrong way round!
4. Sleeplessness
I struggle without my sleep. I get grouchy, I don't function well and have a habit of tripping over and lose my spacial awareness. Having 2 little ones means this occurs quite frequently for me, so that woman mounting the curb at the car park, that person driving off with their mobile phone still nestled on the car roof and the lady that's got her top on inside out yep that's probably me! Please be kind and approach with caution ;)
5. My knee
I know we all have body hang ups and before mine used to be a few of my moles, my chunky thighs and my skin but now I really do have a huge pet peeve and it's my knee. My knee has never been the same and never will since fracturing it 2 years ago and I get daily discomfort with it, sharp stabbing pains and the kneecap clunks and cracks out of place regularly. I get frustrated that I will never seem to have normality with it again.
6. iPhone internal storage
Yes I know my memory is almost full, why do you keep talking to me about clouds? And please let me take one more picture if I clear a few first!
7. Mis use of parent and child parking spaces
This really grates on me, no it's not illegal if you use these spaces and don't have a child in your car with you but you are taking a valuable space for a family which actually really benefit from using these spaces. When you have a toddler or a newborn it's a real struggle to find a space with enough room to open your car door and get them out of their car seat or remove the car seat to insert it into your buggy chassis. You need heaps of space and placing your buggy at the rear or the car with vehicles driving past is simply not safe. I think it takes an incredibly selfish, thoughtless and/or lazy person to deny these spaces to those who genuinely need them.
8. Depression and Anxiety
I hate what these do to people and have seen the effects on both family and friends and those I care about alongside experiencing them myself. I hate that they eat away at people from the core and can leave you feeling so helpless. I am a big fan of talking about mental health openly.
9. Bullying
I hate it when people purposefully intimidate or deliberately ignore or isolate others. It's a horrible trait. I'd like to live in hope that people are mature enough to be civil and polite with one another despite differences they may have faced. I have a heap of respect for people that carry themselves with more dignity.
10. Creaky floor boards